It's funny how it may seem
Something that used to be so familiar to u has now become foreign
Something that you've always done...is now making u nervous and scared to do it again
Something that you were once very sure of is now giving you second thoughts
Or...
Some people who were once so close to you have now become... strangers?
Some people whom were always there for u..are now gone
Some people whom u once were able to share whatnot, from sad sappy stories to colourful rainbow joys... have now make u question yourself as to whether or not that person wants to hear from u
Some people whom u once had so much in common to talk about, well..conversations have now gone from MUCH to a simple "hi" and awkward pauses
Some people whom u once used to share all your secrets with, are now not even talking to u


I'm sure to most, these could be something familiar. Most of you have experienced most of it or at least something similar, i presumed. So many questions but no answers. Often we wonder why and look back at it as to how this could happened. Most of the time, we usually never really get the answer we are looking for. Especially if it relates to humans. Yes...HUMANS. It is how funny how humans are. Humans are complicated. Each and everyone of us. The only similar trait we have in common is, we are all DIFFERENT. In every way and manner.

sometimes, thinking, hoping and praying may be the only best thing u can do.




`me

a reason.a season.a lifetime

"People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do."

People come into your life for
a Reason
a Season
or a Lifetime.


When you know which one it is,
you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then,
without any wrongdoing on your part
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real.
But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person
and put what you have learned to use
in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime.







with love,
-xoxo-

just a quickie....


I've just finished watching He's Just Not That Into You.
I know i know..so outdated.
bUt thumbs up for da' movie..good one..!!!
so so true...couldn't agree more.


On second thought, i know i have been MIA. well, it's the time of the sem again for me as it is for most of u. Assignments and tests..... Just handed one in today. another one to strike of my list. umm, well, not the end of it..there is still work that needs to be done.

Monday got test summo...sighh!! and being sick while having to study and do assignment is not funny at all....nope..totally not.

Wish me luck! all the best to those of u in the same boat or sitting for their finals now.
for now, it's back to work.




PS: he's just not that into you, so.... breathe it, live it, understand it.


much love,
xoxo